Negative People Shield

We all like to have people around us who are more or less of the same instinct. But it’s rare to find this type of match. In a broad sense, human beings can be divided into two categories- good and bad. These two words may sound so simple but these are not that simple ones. A great philosopher said that, every one of us has both bad and good in us. The probability of the exposure determines whether we are good or bad. Sometimes it seen that, a bad guy is transforming a good guy like him and vise versa. So shield for negative people plays an essential role in nullify the behavior.

In most cases, the process of altering behavior starts with vicarious learning which is also observed behavior learning. This learning process depends on three factors, the characteristics of the model and the modeled behavior, the characteristics of the person who is observing the model and the characteristics of the consequences had the model has experienced. When you tend to follow an individual who has negative attitudes, bad habits etc negative sides, then you are going to do as they do, though those are not good. You are doing this because; you have no shield created inside against the odds. You are likely to be a less confident and less experienced person who has little knowledge about the real life.

The whole process depends on the knowledge about the world, the education not just bookish one, here education represents gathering experience from the surroundings, self belief, self esteem and confidence. You have to be sure about every step. Life can be uncertain but not you. You have to believe in your gut feelings and stop listening to others. Only after these, you can have a command over the situation and then you can manipulate it.